अगर आपकी निष्ठा आपको अधर्म का साथ देने को विवश करती है तो आपकी निष्ठा निष्ठा नही बल्कि दासत्व है। अगर अपने सामने मातृभूमि और राष्ट्र के अपमान के विरुद्ध बोलने के मार्ग में निष्ठा आ खड़ी होती है, तो आपको अपनी निष्ठा के पुनर्मूल्यांकन करने की आवश्यकता है। अगर आपकी अंतर्मन की आवाज़ आपके स्वामी की आवाज़ से दब रही है, तो आप अपनी कमजोरियों और नपुंसकता को निष्ठा का आवरण पहना रहे हैं। अगर पांचाली के चीरहरण को देख , हस्तिनापुर के प्रति निष्ठा की ढाल में आप छुप रहे हैं तो समय के तीक्ष्ण शरों की शय्या आपकी प्रतीक्षा कर रही है। अगर निष्ठा के नाम पर आप छल पूर्वक किये गए अभिमन्यु के वध को धर्मयुद्ध बता रहे है तो आप धर्मराज युद्धिष्ठर के द्वारा भी छले जाने तो तैयार रहे। अगर निष्ठा आपके लिये निकास के सारे द्वार बंद करती है, तो आप निष्ठा के नाम पर परतंत्रता को अंगीकार कर रहे हैं। परतंत्रता में पुरुषार्थ उतना ही विरल होता है जितना मरुभूमि में जलप्रवाह। अगर आपका समस्त ज्ञान, कौशल, विद्या और अनुभव सत्य और असत्य का अंतर नहीं पहचान पा रहा तो इन समस्त गुणों के बावजूद आप इतिहास से रहम की उम्मीद न रखें।जिस आत्मसम्मान को आपने पहले ही दासता की पैरों तले कुचलने के लिए छोड़ दिया है, उसपर चोट लगने पर आपका चीत्कार व्यर्थ है।
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Wednesday, July 11, 2018
उड़ान
सच्चाई क्या है? जो दृष्टिगोचर हो रहा है, क्या वह सच है? अंग्रेजी फ़िल्म मैट्रिक्स के एक दृश्य में मॉर्फियस नाम का चरित्र नायक नीओ से पूछता है कि वास्तविकता क्या है? क्या वास्तविकता वो है जो आपको अपनी आँखों से दृष्टिगोचर होता प्रतीत होता है? या वास्तविकता वो है जिसका संज्ञान आप अपनी ज्ञानेन्द्रियों द्वारा लेते हैं? अगर यह वास्तविकता की यह परिभाषा है तो यह वास्तविकता आपके मस्तिष्क द्वारा महसूस किए गए विद्युत तरंग हैं। अगर इस बात को हम ध्यान से देखें तो हम पाएंगे कि वास्तविकता में आपका एक पुट मौजूद है। वास्तविकता वह है जो आपके मस्तिष्क ने महसूस किया। मतलब अगर मस्तिष्क बदल दिया जाए तो वास्तविकता बदल जाएगी। तारे और चांद आखों को इतने मनभावन और सुंदर प्रतीत होते हैं कि उन्हें हम अपने प्रेमी, प्रेयसी, मामा, हीरे , मोती जाने किस किस की संज्ञा नही दे चुके हैं। नज़दीक जाकर दिखने वाली वास्तविकता यह है कि चांद एक जलरहित, जीवन रहित बंजर है जहां जीवन की कल्पना भी कठिन है। तारे वास्तव में सूर्य भांति जलते अग्निपिण्ड हैं जिसके हज़ारों मील दूर भी खड़े रहना संभव नही।
उन्मुक्त गगन में विचरण करते पंछी समूह प्रागेतिहासिक काल से मानव को उड़ने के लिए प्रेरित करते रहे हैं। करीब एक सदी पूर्व तक जब तक बिल्वर बंधुओं ने अपनी पहली उड़ान नही भरी, उड़ने का स्वप्न एक दिवा स्वप्न ही था। आखिर उड़ना इतना मनभावन है। आप हमारी कहानियों , लोक साहित्य और प्राचीन ग्रंथों को ही देख लें। चाहे रामायण के पुष्पक विमान का वर्णन हो, या अलादीन की जादूई चटाई , पेगासस के रूप में उड़ने वाले घोड़े हों या झीने झीने पंखों वाली परियां, उड़ान को हमेशा से एक सुखद स्वप्निल अनुभव की तरह पेश किया जाता है। विज्ञान और तकनीक की प्रगति ने उड़ान की मानव इच्छा को कल्पना की दुनिया से निकाल वास्तविक जीवन का एक साधारण अंग बना दिया है। जिस तरह दूर से दिखने वाले चाँद और वास्तविक चाँद में अंतर है, क्या यही चीज़ मानव उड़ान पर भी लागू है?
ऊंचा उडने के लिये सबसे पहले आपको तेज दौड़ना पड़ता है। इतनी तेज कि आसपास की सारी चीज़ें पीछे भागती नज़र आये। इतनी तेज कि पीछे भागती चीज़ें आप देख भी न पाएं। आप देख भी नही सकते क्यूंकि आपकी नजर सीधी अपने रास्ते पर होनी चाहिये, वरना आप तेज़ दौड़ नही पाएंगे। आप उन लोगों को भी नही देख सकते जो शायद आपकी तेज गति को देख हतप्रभ हो ताली बजा रहे हैं। एक बच्चा जो आपको तेज गति से दूर जाता देख हाथ हिला कर आपको विदा कर रहा है । आपको पता भी नही चलेगा ,उसको वापस से हाथ हिला कर जवाब देना तो दूर की बात है। आखिर यह सब करने से आपकी गति कम होगी , जो आपके उड़ने का सपने में बाधक है। अब इतनी तेज दौड़ने के लिए जरूरी है कि आप भीड़ से दूर हो जाएं । भीड़ में तेज नही दौड़ सकते। सबको साथ लेकर तेज़ नही दौड़ सकते। उड़ने के लिए जितनी तेज आप दौड़ना चाहते है वो भीड़ से दूर खाली जगह पर अकेले ही संभव है। आप दौड़ने के लिए भी आप अपने लिये आप ऐसी जगह चाहते हैं जो बिल्कुल खाली हो। तो आप सबसे पहले भीड़ से अलग होते हैं। हर ऐसी चीज़ जो आपके तेज दौड़ में बाधक है, वो भीड़ है , अवांछित है। यहां तक कि वो पंछी भी आपकी उड़ान के समय अवांछित हो जाता है जिसको देख आपको उड़ने की प्रेरणा मिली थी।
उड़ने के लिये धरातल को छोड़ना आवश्यक है। आप धरातल के नजदीक भी नही उड़ सकते। उड़ना शुरू करते ही, यह जरूरी हो जाता है आप धरातल से दूर हो जायें। जैसे जैसे आप धरातल से दूर होते जाते हो आपको धरती के लोग चीज़ें छोटे दिखने लगते हैं। आपको लगता है कि आप बहुत बड़े हो गए हो जो आसमान में उड़ रहे हो। वस्तुतः आप बड़े नही होते हो, बस बाकी लोगों से दूर हो गए होते हो। इस दूरी को अपना गुरुत्व और बड़प्पन समझने की भूल बहुधा देखी गई है। जैसे जैसे आप और ऊंचाई पर पहुंचते हो आपकी गति काफी तेज हो गई होती है। लेकिन आपको लगता है कि आप या तो स्थिर हो या अत्यंत मंथर गति से आगे चल रहे हो। उपर अकेले उड़ते हुए ऐसा भी आभास होता है कि शायद आप उड़ भी नही रहे वरन स्थिर हैं। यह एक अजीब सी स्थिति है, कि आप
उड़ तो रहे हैं पर स्थिर या जड़ होने की हताशा आपको घेरे हुए है। आप उड़ने का अपना स्वप्न जी रहे हैं लेकिन जड़ता का भाव आपके मानस पटल पर छाया है। आप उन पंछियो से कहीं ऊपर आसमान की सैर कर रहे हैं जिनको देख आपने उड़ने का प्रण लिया था ,पर आपकी उड़ान में पंछियों का वह नाद वह कलरव अनुपस्थित क्यों है।
पंछियों की उड़ान क्या उन्हें वही आनंद, वही उल्लास देती है जो धरती पर खड़े मानव उनको देख महसूस करते हैं? मानव के उड़ने का अनुभव उसके बिल्कुल उलट है। क्या पंछियों का उड़ते समय दिखने वाला आनंद वास्तव में हमारी आँखों का एक भ्रम है और पंछी भी उसी जड़ता और एकाकी भाव से त्रस्त हैं जो मानव उड़ते समय महसूस करते हैं? शायद इस प्रश्न का उत्तर सिर्फ उड़ कर देना संभव नही है, इसके लिए पंछी बन उड़ना पड़ेगा। शायद मानव को ज्ञात उड़ने की वास्तविकता से मानव मस्तिष्क का यह पुट हटाये बिना यह ज्ञात नही हो सकता।
उन्मुक्त गगन में विचरण करते पंछी समूह प्रागेतिहासिक काल से मानव को उड़ने के लिए प्रेरित करते रहे हैं। करीब एक सदी पूर्व तक जब तक बिल्वर बंधुओं ने अपनी पहली उड़ान नही भरी, उड़ने का स्वप्न एक दिवा स्वप्न ही था। आखिर उड़ना इतना मनभावन है। आप हमारी कहानियों , लोक साहित्य और प्राचीन ग्रंथों को ही देख लें। चाहे रामायण के पुष्पक विमान का वर्णन हो, या अलादीन की जादूई चटाई , पेगासस के रूप में उड़ने वाले घोड़े हों या झीने झीने पंखों वाली परियां, उड़ान को हमेशा से एक सुखद स्वप्निल अनुभव की तरह पेश किया जाता है। विज्ञान और तकनीक की प्रगति ने उड़ान की मानव इच्छा को कल्पना की दुनिया से निकाल वास्तविक जीवन का एक साधारण अंग बना दिया है। जिस तरह दूर से दिखने वाले चाँद और वास्तविक चाँद में अंतर है, क्या यही चीज़ मानव उड़ान पर भी लागू है?
ऊंचा उडने के लिये सबसे पहले आपको तेज दौड़ना पड़ता है। इतनी तेज कि आसपास की सारी चीज़ें पीछे भागती नज़र आये। इतनी तेज कि पीछे भागती चीज़ें आप देख भी न पाएं। आप देख भी नही सकते क्यूंकि आपकी नजर सीधी अपने रास्ते पर होनी चाहिये, वरना आप तेज़ दौड़ नही पाएंगे। आप उन लोगों को भी नही देख सकते जो शायद आपकी तेज गति को देख हतप्रभ हो ताली बजा रहे हैं। एक बच्चा जो आपको तेज गति से दूर जाता देख हाथ हिला कर आपको विदा कर रहा है । आपको पता भी नही चलेगा ,उसको वापस से हाथ हिला कर जवाब देना तो दूर की बात है। आखिर यह सब करने से आपकी गति कम होगी , जो आपके उड़ने का सपने में बाधक है। अब इतनी तेज दौड़ने के लिए जरूरी है कि आप भीड़ से दूर हो जाएं । भीड़ में तेज नही दौड़ सकते। सबको साथ लेकर तेज़ नही दौड़ सकते। उड़ने के लिए जितनी तेज आप दौड़ना चाहते है वो भीड़ से दूर खाली जगह पर अकेले ही संभव है। आप दौड़ने के लिए भी आप अपने लिये आप ऐसी जगह चाहते हैं जो बिल्कुल खाली हो। तो आप सबसे पहले भीड़ से अलग होते हैं। हर ऐसी चीज़ जो आपके तेज दौड़ में बाधक है, वो भीड़ है , अवांछित है। यहां तक कि वो पंछी भी आपकी उड़ान के समय अवांछित हो जाता है जिसको देख आपको उड़ने की प्रेरणा मिली थी।
उड़ने के लिये धरातल को छोड़ना आवश्यक है। आप धरातल के नजदीक भी नही उड़ सकते। उड़ना शुरू करते ही, यह जरूरी हो जाता है आप धरातल से दूर हो जायें। जैसे जैसे आप धरातल से दूर होते जाते हो आपको धरती के लोग चीज़ें छोटे दिखने लगते हैं। आपको लगता है कि आप बहुत बड़े हो गए हो जो आसमान में उड़ रहे हो। वस्तुतः आप बड़े नही होते हो, बस बाकी लोगों से दूर हो गए होते हो। इस दूरी को अपना गुरुत्व और बड़प्पन समझने की भूल बहुधा देखी गई है। जैसे जैसे आप और ऊंचाई पर पहुंचते हो आपकी गति काफी तेज हो गई होती है। लेकिन आपको लगता है कि आप या तो स्थिर हो या अत्यंत मंथर गति से आगे चल रहे हो। उपर अकेले उड़ते हुए ऐसा भी आभास होता है कि शायद आप उड़ भी नही रहे वरन स्थिर हैं। यह एक अजीब सी स्थिति है, कि आप
उड़ तो रहे हैं पर स्थिर या जड़ होने की हताशा आपको घेरे हुए है। आप उड़ने का अपना स्वप्न जी रहे हैं लेकिन जड़ता का भाव आपके मानस पटल पर छाया है। आप उन पंछियो से कहीं ऊपर आसमान की सैर कर रहे हैं जिनको देख आपने उड़ने का प्रण लिया था ,पर आपकी उड़ान में पंछियों का वह नाद वह कलरव अनुपस्थित क्यों है।
पंछियों की उड़ान क्या उन्हें वही आनंद, वही उल्लास देती है जो धरती पर खड़े मानव उनको देख महसूस करते हैं? मानव के उड़ने का अनुभव उसके बिल्कुल उलट है। क्या पंछियों का उड़ते समय दिखने वाला आनंद वास्तव में हमारी आँखों का एक भ्रम है और पंछी भी उसी जड़ता और एकाकी भाव से त्रस्त हैं जो मानव उड़ते समय महसूस करते हैं? शायद इस प्रश्न का उत्तर सिर्फ उड़ कर देना संभव नही है, इसके लिए पंछी बन उड़ना पड़ेगा। शायद मानव को ज्ञात उड़ने की वास्तविकता से मानव मस्तिष्क का यह पुट हटाये बिना यह ज्ञात नही हो सकता।
Those three words
What does it mean when someone says ‘I love you’ to someone?
The sentense “I Love You” is in present tense.
It does not mention anything about future.
It talks about the present time.
It talks about the present situation.
It does not carry any insurance about the coming future.
Is it logical to feel happy about something which does not carry any insurance about future?
Is it wise to celebrate something ephemeral?
What if it means “I will love you in future too”?
It raises bigger questions.
Can anybody assure someone of future and coming events?
Is “I Love You” completely independent of future or upcoming unseen unpredictable events?
Or is it at least resistant to future?
If it is so, it must be something person saying should be 100 % sure about.
Is the person saying “I love you” is sure about ‘I’, ‘Love’ and ‘You’?
If a person is really sure what he is; I mean that he really knows “I”, then probably he/she will be more than an average human.
A monk?
A demigod?
How many of them are really around?
Not many!1
Well, if very few are sure about ‘I’, even less will be sure about ‘you’.
Its always easier to knoe oneself than others.
What about the third word.. ‘Love’?
Is it hormonal?
Is it spiritual?
Is it emotional?
Is it devotional?
Is it sensational?
Is it all of theabove listed?
Is it none of the above listed?
Is it some of the above listed?
What kinds of ‘Love’ can it there which is sandwiched between so not firm, shaken, mysterious ‘I’ and ‘You’?
Is it love in the first place?
Is it possible that these three words whose meaning individually are not clear, not sure, not permanent; when come together can make something clear, sure and permanent?
May be the answer is yes.
After all a complete piece is made up of many incomplete pieces put together.
Is it the case with “I Love You”?
Heart wants to hear yes.
Mind says ‘Are you out of your mind?”.
Whom to listen to?
Heart?
Mind?
Mind reasons.
Heart does not.
Heart feels.
Mind does not.
Mind says don’t believe those three words.
Heart asks what’s more believable than this.
Mind or heart?
That’s the question.
To believe or not to believe?
That’s the question.
The sentense “I Love You” is in present tense.
It does not mention anything about future.
It talks about the present time.
It talks about the present situation.
It does not carry any insurance about the coming future.
Is it logical to feel happy about something which does not carry any insurance about future?
Is it wise to celebrate something ephemeral?
What if it means “I will love you in future too”?
It raises bigger questions.
Can anybody assure someone of future and coming events?
Is “I Love You” completely independent of future or upcoming unseen unpredictable events?
Or is it at least resistant to future?
If it is so, it must be something person saying should be 100 % sure about.
Is the person saying “I love you” is sure about ‘I’, ‘Love’ and ‘You’?
If a person is really sure what he is; I mean that he really knows “I”, then probably he/she will be more than an average human.
A monk?
A demigod?
How many of them are really around?
Not many!1
Well, if very few are sure about ‘I’, even less will be sure about ‘you’.
Its always easier to knoe oneself than others.
What about the third word.. ‘Love’?
Is it hormonal?
Is it spiritual?
Is it emotional?
Is it devotional?
Is it sensational?
Is it all of theabove listed?
Is it none of the above listed?
Is it some of the above listed?
What kinds of ‘Love’ can it there which is sandwiched between so not firm, shaken, mysterious ‘I’ and ‘You’?
Is it love in the first place?
Is it possible that these three words whose meaning individually are not clear, not sure, not permanent; when come together can make something clear, sure and permanent?
May be the answer is yes.
After all a complete piece is made up of many incomplete pieces put together.
Is it the case with “I Love You”?
Heart wants to hear yes.
Mind says ‘Are you out of your mind?”.
Whom to listen to?
Heart?
Mind?
Mind reasons.
Heart does not.
Heart feels.
Mind does not.
Mind says don’t believe those three words.
Heart asks what’s more believable than this.
Mind or heart?
That’s the question.
To believe or not to believe?
That’s the question.
What comes in between when Kiss happens!!
Love is in the air. So here is a post to celebrate something that is
a symbol of love. May be I should say it is the autograph of cupid,
footprint of love and sign of life. It is THE KISS.
Read on...
In a scene from yesteryear blockbuster ‘3 idiots’, Kareena Kapoor’s Character Pooja asks Aamir khan aka Rancho whether Nose comes in between while kissing. I was watching ‘3 idiots’ in a theatre. I saw many couple around me trying to figure out the answers to the question by actually trying it.
I won’t recommend those methods for finding the above question. There must be better methods than unhygienic saliva transfer with a person in a dark theatre. Without being proud or arrogant, I would say reading this post is one of the better methods.
It is said that to get the right answer, it is necessary to ask right questions. E.g. take the question asked by Pooja in ‘3 Idiots’. I think it’s such a shallow question, which will only fetch a one word answer about a question typical kind of kiss we call Smooch. Even that answer won’t be correct always. If we answer yes, Nose comes in between while kissing; it is applicable to us Indians have such big and long noses which we love to poke everywhere. What about our Chinese friends, answer to this question will certainly different? Just look at their noses, given you can identify that on their face.
Sorry for the distraction, this post is not about Noses, it is about kisses. We established that Puja asked the wrong question. We can’t really blame her. What else can you expect from a drunken teenager girl? But we are not drunken and not teenager anymore. My modified question will be what comes in between when a kiss happens. Hopefully this question will lead us to better answers.
So what is the right answer? A typical MBA answer will be ‘Depends’. Guess what, for a change; it is the right answer. It really depends upon the types of kisses involved.
Let’s try to find out what actually comes in between when different types of kiss happen.
1) As a gesture to greet somebody, people exchange peck on the cheek. For English people, it is as common as a handshake, but in India, it is a shine of urbane and sophisticated. Here what comes between the participants is an exchange of message that I am also sophisticated as thou.
2) Few people take “Love Me Love My Dog Phrase literally”. These people are often seen trying to get friendly with the dog of their love interests, their bosses, and their clients to get their attention, promotion or business. Kiss being the universally accepted sign of showing affection; they end up kissing their dogs too. What comes in between is the flattery, a tendency to ride up the ladder without hard work.
3) What comes in between, various kisses depends upon at which part they are planted to. E.g. In case of Kinky kisses or tender nibbles at the ears saying I-want-you, it’s the ear which comes in between, in case of kiss at hands showing admiration hands comes in between. U can guess which part comes in between by the name. E.g. Hand kissing, nose kissing, forehead kissing etc. Caution. In case someone talking about kissing someone’s ass, it’s not a donkey that comes in between.
4) Some kisses are born with a destiny. They are certainly more than a communication between two people. In fact sometimes people involved in a kiss may be more than thousands. Take example of Richard Gere Kissing Shilpa Shetty. Complete Indian media, Hindu fundamentalist, nationalists, political parties got involved in the kiss and they wanted their share of kiss, I mean limelight. Other examples are Rakhi Mika kiss, or Nelson Mandela Shabana Azmi kiss. Recent times have proved that kissing can also be a way of livelihood. Ask Emraan Hashmi or mallika Sheravat. In these kinds of kisses what come in between is dozens of news channels, political parties, religious organizations, and common man. Well common man is there to feel envious and wonder that how these kisses are more important than his life and death.
5) There are few kisses in a person’s life that are very personal and worth giving right hand for.
A) The First kiss: Nothing can replace this. First one always remains the first one. Mostly it is a stolen one, taken in a theatre, in a school classroom, in a taxi back seat. Mostly very short and awkward but certainly the sweetest. Here nothing really comes in between except the passion. Certainly the best kiss of a person.
b) “You may now kiss the bride.” The kiss that follows this sentence comprises of commitment, love and a decision to grow old together. The first kiss of life is unforgettable by choice; this one is unforgettable by law!!! Still a very memorable one. Difference between the first kiss and wedding kiss is that you can’t have your first kiss more than once; wedding kiss can be repeated though it’s very costly.
What comes in between a wedding kiss? I am not gonna tell you. Get married and see it yourself. :)
Read on...
In a scene from yesteryear blockbuster ‘3 idiots’, Kareena Kapoor’s Character Pooja asks Aamir khan aka Rancho whether Nose comes in between while kissing. I was watching ‘3 idiots’ in a theatre. I saw many couple around me trying to figure out the answers to the question by actually trying it.
I won’t recommend those methods for finding the above question. There must be better methods than unhygienic saliva transfer with a person in a dark theatre. Without being proud or arrogant, I would say reading this post is one of the better methods.
It is said that to get the right answer, it is necessary to ask right questions. E.g. take the question asked by Pooja in ‘3 Idiots’. I think it’s such a shallow question, which will only fetch a one word answer about a question typical kind of kiss we call Smooch. Even that answer won’t be correct always. If we answer yes, Nose comes in between while kissing; it is applicable to us Indians have such big and long noses which we love to poke everywhere. What about our Chinese friends, answer to this question will certainly different? Just look at their noses, given you can identify that on their face.
Sorry for the distraction, this post is not about Noses, it is about kisses. We established that Puja asked the wrong question. We can’t really blame her. What else can you expect from a drunken teenager girl? But we are not drunken and not teenager anymore. My modified question will be what comes in between when a kiss happens. Hopefully this question will lead us to better answers.
So what is the right answer? A typical MBA answer will be ‘Depends’. Guess what, for a change; it is the right answer. It really depends upon the types of kisses involved.
Let’s try to find out what actually comes in between when different types of kiss happen.
1) As a gesture to greet somebody, people exchange peck on the cheek. For English people, it is as common as a handshake, but in India, it is a shine of urbane and sophisticated. Here what comes between the participants is an exchange of message that I am also sophisticated as thou.
2) Few people take “Love Me Love My Dog Phrase literally”. These people are often seen trying to get friendly with the dog of their love interests, their bosses, and their clients to get their attention, promotion or business. Kiss being the universally accepted sign of showing affection; they end up kissing their dogs too. What comes in between is the flattery, a tendency to ride up the ladder without hard work.
3) What comes in between, various kisses depends upon at which part they are planted to. E.g. In case of Kinky kisses or tender nibbles at the ears saying I-want-you, it’s the ear which comes in between, in case of kiss at hands showing admiration hands comes in between. U can guess which part comes in between by the name. E.g. Hand kissing, nose kissing, forehead kissing etc. Caution. In case someone talking about kissing someone’s ass, it’s not a donkey that comes in between.
4) Some kisses are born with a destiny. They are certainly more than a communication between two people. In fact sometimes people involved in a kiss may be more than thousands. Take example of Richard Gere Kissing Shilpa Shetty. Complete Indian media, Hindu fundamentalist, nationalists, political parties got involved in the kiss and they wanted their share of kiss, I mean limelight. Other examples are Rakhi Mika kiss, or Nelson Mandela Shabana Azmi kiss. Recent times have proved that kissing can also be a way of livelihood. Ask Emraan Hashmi or mallika Sheravat. In these kinds of kisses what come in between is dozens of news channels, political parties, religious organizations, and common man. Well common man is there to feel envious and wonder that how these kisses are more important than his life and death.
5) There are few kisses in a person’s life that are very personal and worth giving right hand for.
A) The First kiss: Nothing can replace this. First one always remains the first one. Mostly it is a stolen one, taken in a theatre, in a school classroom, in a taxi back seat. Mostly very short and awkward but certainly the sweetest. Here nothing really comes in between except the passion. Certainly the best kiss of a person.
b) “You may now kiss the bride.” The kiss that follows this sentence comprises of commitment, love and a decision to grow old together. The first kiss of life is unforgettable by choice; this one is unforgettable by law!!! Still a very memorable one. Difference between the first kiss and wedding kiss is that you can’t have your first kiss more than once; wedding kiss can be repeated though it’s very costly.
What comes in between a wedding kiss? I am not gonna tell you. Get married and see it yourself. :)
This is a boring note
This is a boring note.
Please note this note will bore you.
You are still reading this means you are not afraid of getting bored.
So either you are already bored or doing things you consider worse than being bored.
If you are already bored, then this note hardly makes any difference to you.
If you are not, my question is why you want to get bored?
Is your job not capable enough to bore you?
Is your life so exciting that you are almost bored of being excited?
Is it possible to get bored by excitement anyway?
What is thing that differentiates between boredom and excitement?
Why same premises, same situations, same people, same talks, same food, same job oscillates between extremes of being boring and exciting?
To understand boring, let’s try to decipher what is exciting?
Is exciting something which entertains you?
If we consider exciting same as entertaining is loose sense, it poses bigger questions in front of us?
You need entertainment to get rid of boredom. Right?
Now, this means entertainment and boredom both are opposite to each other.
You can’t be entertained while you are getting bored.
You can’t be bored while you are going through phase of entertainment.
Then what explains the concept of intervals between lectures, movies, meetings?
These intervals are supposed to recharge you?
This means these things ( lectures, movies, meetings) are likely to drain you, consume you, and tire you?
This makes these things( lectures, movies, meetings) inherently boring.
Because if these are entertaining they should not drain you, consume you, tire you.
Things that drain you, consume you and tire you can’t be entertaining or exciting.
So they have to be boring.
So far we have agreed that you need to take a break or an interval to prevent excessive boredom.
So when you say to anyone, I need a break, you mean to say you are bored.
After you go to your bed in the night, you take a break from your life.
In other words, you are bored.
Now everybody on this planet sleeps.
Even those who claim to have very exciting lives.
Which makes us to believe that everyone around is actually bored.
Boredom is the feeling that is constant, permanent.
Phases of life where you seek entertainment and excitement are actually not your real life.
Real life is always boring.
Is life boring? Then what is death?
Life and death are opposite.
If life is boring, death must be exciting and entertaining.
If death is exciting and entertaining, why are we afraid of death?
Death is sad, death is gloomy. But only to the people who are not dead.
We don’t know for sure how death feels to people who are already dead.
Simple logic says it should be opposite to what living feel about death.
So this means, death is exciting and entertaining for those who are dead or dying.
Then phrase REST IN PEACE does not make sense.
Can you remain calm and peaceful when you are excited and entertained?
No..
This makes me utterly confused what is boring and what is exciting?
Are boring and exciting are simple myths?
Things around us are neither exciting nor boring.
Then what are they?
Think..
Bored?
Excited?
Think..
Lets question the line we started with.
Is this a boring note?
Please note this note will bore you.
You are still reading this means you are not afraid of getting bored.
So either you are already bored or doing things you consider worse than being bored.
If you are already bored, then this note hardly makes any difference to you.
If you are not, my question is why you want to get bored?
Is your job not capable enough to bore you?
Is your life so exciting that you are almost bored of being excited?
Is it possible to get bored by excitement anyway?
What is thing that differentiates between boredom and excitement?
Why same premises, same situations, same people, same talks, same food, same job oscillates between extremes of being boring and exciting?
To understand boring, let’s try to decipher what is exciting?
Is exciting something which entertains you?
If we consider exciting same as entertaining is loose sense, it poses bigger questions in front of us?
You need entertainment to get rid of boredom. Right?
Now, this means entertainment and boredom both are opposite to each other.
You can’t be entertained while you are getting bored.
You can’t be bored while you are going through phase of entertainment.
Then what explains the concept of intervals between lectures, movies, meetings?
These intervals are supposed to recharge you?
This means these things ( lectures, movies, meetings) are likely to drain you, consume you, and tire you?
This makes these things( lectures, movies, meetings) inherently boring.
Because if these are entertaining they should not drain you, consume you, tire you.
Things that drain you, consume you and tire you can’t be entertaining or exciting.
So they have to be boring.
So far we have agreed that you need to take a break or an interval to prevent excessive boredom.
So when you say to anyone, I need a break, you mean to say you are bored.
After you go to your bed in the night, you take a break from your life.
In other words, you are bored.
Now everybody on this planet sleeps.
Even those who claim to have very exciting lives.
Which makes us to believe that everyone around is actually bored.
Boredom is the feeling that is constant, permanent.
Phases of life where you seek entertainment and excitement are actually not your real life.
Real life is always boring.
Is life boring? Then what is death?
Life and death are opposite.
If life is boring, death must be exciting and entertaining.
If death is exciting and entertaining, why are we afraid of death?
Death is sad, death is gloomy. But only to the people who are not dead.
We don’t know for sure how death feels to people who are already dead.
Simple logic says it should be opposite to what living feel about death.
So this means, death is exciting and entertaining for those who are dead or dying.
Then phrase REST IN PEACE does not make sense.
Can you remain calm and peaceful when you are excited and entertained?
No..
This makes me utterly confused what is boring and what is exciting?
Are boring and exciting are simple myths?
Things around us are neither exciting nor boring.
Then what are they?
Think..
Bored?
Excited?
Think..
Lets question the line we started with.
Is this a boring note?
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